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Dec162008

Celebrating Mom Heather

Tuesdays are typically one of my busiest days of the week, and today is no exception. I’ve got our weekly all-morning Corporate Team meeting that goes until noon, then five more meetings this afternoon, and an appointment tonight—this is a busy time of year for all of us!

 

However, I scheduled one all-day “appointment” a couple of weeks ago that is more important than anything else I have scheduled today—an all-day “celebration of Mom Heather.”

Mom Heather passed away one year ago today, and I’m going to do everything I can today to celebrate her life. While I’m sure tears will be shed (I expect many tears!), I hope most of them will be tears of joy and gratitude for having her in my life. I’m going to wear one of the many pins she gave me, enjoy eating more than usual (Mom Heather LOVED food, and she passed that love on to me), talk about her with Sterling and our girls (and anyone else who will listen), and call her husband, Paul.

 

I’m also going to take a few minutes sometime today to walk down to our lobby here at Riverton and look at the Christmas tree there.

Mom Heather made every handstamped ornament on it for our first Christmas here in our own facility.

The ornaments are gorgeous and are so much like everything she did—creative, beautiful, detailed. I’ll spend a few minutes in my stamp studio too, where I have a few projects she made displayed so I can always be inspired by her work.

 

While I’m in my studio, I’ll take a few minutes to write down some special memories I have of Mom Heather. And at some point in the day, I will definitely watch the DVD we put together for her services—it has tons of great pictures that make me smile and cry, all set to her three favorite songs.

 

Today will be a celebration of Heather Harrison, and I am so thankful for the things I inherited from her, the things she taught me, and the huge impact she’s had on my life!

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Reader Comments (41)

It sounds like she was a beautiful woman. You are in my thoughts and prayers today.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAllison L
Shelli - I hope today overflows with beautiful memories. She must have been a remarkable woman . . . I can tell because she helped to shape you into a remarkable woman too.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterComeka
Oh Shelli, what a beautiful thing to do. I lost my mother the 6th of January and this is the first Christmas without her. How hard it is. I look at all the little things she enjoyed and my eyes well up with tears and my heart aches. She was very sick and I wouldn't wish her back to have to suffer through the sickness again. I plan to see my mother again in Heaven some day.....what a joy that will be.
Enjoy your day and all the wonderful memories of her.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterPhyllis W
What a beautiful tribute to your Mom. It shows just how much she was loved by you.

The ornaments she made for the tree are beautiful. Since I am Jewish and don't celebrate Christmas, I truly enjoy looking at other people decorations

My prayers are with you today, as you remember your Mother.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJoy Willinger
How touching, Shelli! I hope you have a wonderful time today in the presence of the Spirit of Mom Heather. Thank you for being a wonderful example of how to take time out & set it aside for the important things in life!
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStaci Miserlian
Hi Shelly,
I just finished reading your latest blog. My mom passed away around this time last year too. I understand how your feeling & wanting to enjoy good memories today.
What I would like to say is remember one of the most precious gifts your mom has ever given you, time. Everyone has it, but many dont appreciate it. Value it as if it were gold. Cherish it as if it were a baby. Spend it wisely, as it can never be returned. And remember it with joy. If you can do these things, then you are a blessed person.
Sending blessings, and warm memories to you today & always,
Christie
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChristie
I love my mom dearly and don't know what I would do without her. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterErin
I know you have so many wonderful memories and am so thankful that you shared them with all of us. What a tribute to your Mom....she must have been a remarkable woman. These little stories about her make us all feel close to her too! Thanks again for sharing and enjoy your day honoring your Mom and you're memories!.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLee Conrey
I am thinking of you today. How great that you have set aside time to remember one of your moms.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSHH
Shelli - how wonderful. Not just the beautiful things she did but the loving memories she left you.
I lost my Mama many years (1977) but there are times when I know she is looking over my shoulder. We too enjoyed each other. Eventually the pain of loss will fade but the memories will be in full color for the rest of your being.
Pat
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterPat Chastain
Shelli - I lost my Dad almost 6 years ago and my Mom recently sold her house and temporarily moved in with me. While there have been little "moments" - I have cherished each and every moment. Your post just reinforces how precious each day is and we should honor our loved ones when they are gone - but we must be sure that we honor them every day that they are a part of our lives here on earth. They never leave us, its just when they move on the conversations can be a little more one-sided (usually because we don't listen with our hearts). Listen with your heart today and know that Mom Heather is right there with you!
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAlison
Hi Shelli - I had to post since I had the extreme pleasure of meeting your mom at my first convention :) I let you know in Palm Springs Leadership the story.

My very first convention - my downline Dawn and I had the very extreme pleasure of sitting down with Heather and with Kelli at a table -

Kelli was making her beautiful pins and Dawn and I were brand new stampers and facinated. We had hurried into the hall one of the first nights and we saw 2 chairs at a table and Heather welcomed us. We had no idea who they were - but we were talking to them about the pins and how Kelli made them. Heather just sat there handing supplies to Kelli - but didn't cut out the pins or get glue all over - she said she had made enough things with glue and smiled :)

After people kept coming up to them - from the main stage - I finally turned to Heather and said - Everyone knows you - how long have you been stamping - and Kelli started laughing :) She smiled at me and said - well for about as long as Shelli is old - Dawn and I looked at her and said - how do you know Shelli - and she quietly says - She's my daughter!

The entire rest of the convention - they took us under the wings and we sat with them throughout the convention. Kelli shared all her books with class ideas in them and we still email her and see her each year at convention.

Your mom warmed our hearts and welcomed us in so close to her - I honestly felt like family - more so than just with a rubber stamp.

Shelli - thank you so much for sharing this with all of us - and thank you for opening up your heart. She was truly a very wonderful person and an amazing mom - She was so very proud of you!

Blessings :)

Susannah
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSusannah
Shelli,you are truly an inspiration in remembering what is truly important in our lives. Family, friends and the time we spend together. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and your family. Through your sharing of your memories about your mom, she will be remembered by all of us. She had to be an amazing woman and she raised her daughter to be an amazing woman too. May God bless you always.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAnnMarie
I am so touched my your blog today and I hope today was one of celebrating your mom's life and remembering all the wonderful memories you must have of her. What a blessing to me as I read it and the post from AnnMarie about meeting your mom was so beautiful too. This is what I love about Stampin'Up!, the wonderful sharing and caring about others and it certainly shines through you Shelli and your precious mom. the ornaments are gorgeous. I can't even imagine the days it took to make all of those ornaments to fill a tree. Each one was made with love and I feel that love right now just looking at the picture of the tree. What a wonderful mom and woman your mom was and what a testament to what we all can be when we "share what we love". Thank you for blessing my day.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSue Ring
Sorry Susannah, it was you who shared the story about Shelli's mom.I will remember it and share with others.
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSue Ring
Shelli - Thank you for sharing how you will spend your day. It is beautiful. This is a day filled with so many emotions. Today is a special day for me also. Today my brother would have celebrated his 50th birthday. He passed away very unexpectedly 2 years ago from luekemia. I truely wish I had so many tangibles to remind me of him today. You are very lucky. I wish I could see the tree in the atrium. It is peaceful to know there are two angels in heaven watching over us both. My thoughts and prayers are with you. - Jacki
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJacki Montgomery
That is such a beautiful tribute to your mom. Please tell us why you call her Mom Heather!!
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJamie
Shelli, what beautiful memories you have of your Mother... thank you so much for sharing!
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersharon field
{{{HUGS}}} to you today while you remember your beloved mother. Its a very good tradition to celebrate one year later.

I give thanks daily for my mother. She just got diagnosed with breast cancer and she's going to start chemo and radiation right after Christmas.

I love her more and more each day for her strength and determination to fight and live and love her family!
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDina Anker
Shelli,
Thank you for sharing your special feelings about how you will remember your mother. I lost my mother many years ago and have lots of special memories, her beautiful crocheted doilies, her homemade teddy bears and many flowers in my garden that came from her garden. I didn't know your mother was a stamper. Thanks for sharing your special memories.
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDeanna
Dear Shelli, Bask in the memories! They surround you like mother's arms; you will feel the warmth, see the smiles, smell the perfume, hear the many times she said, "I love you!" I would give almost anything to hear, feel, smell and touch my Mom again, but am comforted knowing she is in the presence of God. What a magnificent life she now has! Merry Christmas and blessings on you and yours. Deb
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDebi
I really needed to read your blog today! You are in my thoughts as is Mom Heather. Those pictures you started with are absolutely beautiful and from your actions over the years I can tell (as can everyone else!) that she was a wonderful mother! Your love, admiration and respect for her is beyond obvious - enjoy your day! :c)
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAngie Page
Who is Kelli?
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSHH
Shelli:
Just got a call from my mom, her mastectomy removed ALL cancer, it hadn't spread and we'll have a merry one after all.

Still hugs to you and happy celebrations and memories of your mother!
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDina Anker
Wow, that Christmas tree is VERY impressive! I hope the Holidays will bring comfort through the presence of your family and friends and that today is filled with warm memories of your Mom and her legacy.

Cindy
December 17, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterCindy Major

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